Why did I create all these rules anyway? Wait for HIM to call. Don’t message first. If he doesn’t do x, y or z then he doesn’t like you. *Ugh* Advice.
Everyone has advice to dispense. And the ‘rules’ that people follow are just someone else’s advice. That’s it. There are no rules. Just do what you want. Sometimes you will get hurt. Sometimes you will find blossoming love. Sometimes you will find something that alright just for now. And the funny thing is, I originally used to think this way BEFORE society got the better of me. I used to ask guys out before failure ‘taught’ me that it wasn’t the way it’s done. The truth of the matter is that guys have the same thing happen to them- They get rejected too. Why are we too shy to just come out and do exactly what it is that we want? What are we so afraid of? Isn’t the alternative of ‘what if’ always going to be worse?
Prince Harry has a nice smile. He’s smart. He has a sexy voice. He might not have the maturity or experience that I ‘should’ be after- AGAIN WITH THE RULES. But..... for now..... Maybe. Just maybe. He’ll do for now.
And as for rules. Semantically, that has to be wrong. This is dating. Not mathematics. There are no dating rules. Just advice. Advice that people TURN into guidelines. And yes, the guidelines are there and many people subscribe to them. I'm not stupid, so I will assume that I know them. I will assume that some of them are innate and others are common sense and others still..... are total crap. And I will ignore even the most sensible of them if I so please, still expecting my friends to love and comfort me if I do so and fall on my butt. No fear. It's why 5 year olds can program the TIVO and old people can't. If you're ice skating and you fear falling, you fall- while the 5 year olds zoom past and laugh at your sorry ass.
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